Respecting Your Boundaries
Insights on how to embody your truth.
What are your boundaries?
Are you embodying your boundaries?
Are you expanding guided by your boundaries?
Your boundaries are your own, there are not someone else's responsibility.
Your boundaries are your responsibility.
And yet I witness many of you talking about your boundaries but behaving other ways.
If it's a no, act your no.
If it's a yes, act your yes.
Be aware to observe which thoughts are rising when you feel a boundary or set it.
Know that if you are feeling it, you do not need to justify it.
Often the tendency is to get caught up in reasoning and telling stories of why instead of simply taking action for how we feel.
Boundaries are not thinking about your needs, your boundaries are acting for your needs.
It is a practice to embody your boundaries because first it requires you to listen to your inner voice: What does my body is telling me? What is my emotional need now?
If you are used to one way of reacting to your needs, like dismissing them or questioning them for example, it is normal to feel discomfort and unease when you decide to change your behaviours to align with your truth.
Step by step.
Affirming your boundaries is also important to embody them.
The way you choose to express them in words for yourself and towards other matters.
The words and the sentencing you decide to use act as a support and a guidance.
The practice of setting intentions is very supportive to owning your boundaries. (I am sharing my way in this podcast: Spotify link)
By taking the time to reflect on your needs of now and wording them into affirmations, you activate them powerfully and spark momentum for their manifestation.
Sometimes voicing out your boundaries will trigger a powerful reaction in the other.
Practice not taking it personally : you are not responsible of my reaction. Please don't take my power away and reclaim yours. You are responsible of how you are handling the situation. The way we deal with the fire of action can be tricky, especially if you choose to recreate your ways.
Good habits are to practice slowing down, conscious breathing and holding your centre. This way when the fire sparks, you have the tools to play with it following your truth instead of burning out, reacting against, bouncing back and forth, avoiding, looping in limited patterns, etc.
There are infinite ways to create how we interact.
How I choose to relate to you, to any situations is a reflection of how I relate to my self.
Be aware.
How I deal with me is key for all my interactions.
How you relate to your self is the foundation for all your relationships.
I am inviting you to open to receive new perspectives on yourself and let them guide you in your growth process.
Life is your creation.
About your boundaries: play with them don't let them oppress you or limit your expansion. Our boundaries are alive, they need nourishment and attention.
Don't we all?
Only you can do you 🔥
I love you,
Océanie.
I share more insights about my way on Instagram : @libreetmagique
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